tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post33669920574869491..comments2023-10-19T07:25:50.728-07:00Comments on Cover(ed) Girl: To date or not to date?Heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17017554278813071029noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-46787055761462436172009-09-30T09:14:07.229-07:002009-09-30T09:14:07.229-07:00Woo singletons. Good word. :D
A roommate of mine ...Woo singletons. Good word. :D<br /><br />A roommate of mine keeps trying to hook everybody up. I just wanna get done with school and not have to worry about a love life right now.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07382787889525110718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-23888044795787445982009-09-29T09:40:21.687-07:002009-09-29T09:40:21.687-07:00I totally agree with you and LK - if you can't...I totally agree with you and LK - if you can't be happy with yourself, you're just setting the stage for issues and problems.<br /><br />I suppose compared to most of the western world, my husband and I "courted"...I mean, it was dating, but we both knew that the point was to get married and that's why we dated - to see if we were a good match. You gotta keep your standards and goals in mind, y'know?Sophiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05579887153281905386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-26125929404046317922009-09-29T06:46:03.843-07:002009-09-29T06:46:03.843-07:00I stopped dating about a year ago. Just because th...I stopped dating about a year ago. Just because that's when the whole religious upheaval in my life really took over, and it was too much to worry about dating and figuring out what I was doing with my faith.<br /><br />I'm not sure I'd 'date' in the traditional sense, I'm thinking more along the lines of a courtship kind of thing. For me, the point of dating is marriage, so if it's not headed that way, then it's a waste of my time.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09002997517784638068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-5375659672595485702009-09-29T00:30:04.574-07:002009-09-29T00:30:04.574-07:00Definitely don't need to know the story about ...Definitely don't need to know the story about the yucky penultimate ex.<br /><br />I am the sort that if I think a proposal needs to happen, I'll do it myself. Indeed, some years ago, I did just that. He asked for time to think about it, so during that time I considered myself taken and refused invitations to spend time alone with other men. He said no eventually, but we continued to be friends, neither of us has been seeing anyone else since then, so the subject has come up from time to time.<br /><br />But anyway, what I am driving at is that during that nearly year's time when it was just plain inappropriate and immoral for me to be spending time alone with other men - unless there was some legitimate business reason for it - I found that I quite liked that lifestyle of not spending time alone with men unless there is a specific reason to do so, and so I have continued to live like this even when I have had no moral obligation to anyone except myself and God.<br /><br />Even now that marriage has come up again, I don't meet alone in person even with M unless there is a specific reason to do so. We talk once a week on the phone, and in 6 years of knowing each other have never gone out on a date. Never done more than shake hands. Indeed, he's such an old-world gentleman that we still address each other formally - he still calls me Madam! Since I don't believe in titles on Biblical grounds, I call him Esteemed Person. Which is a little amusing, since the word for person in Polish is feminine... But it's not a problem - he couldn't pass for a woman no matter how hard he tried :Pcaraboskanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-3807193278575478232009-09-28T20:54:16.024-07:002009-09-28T20:54:16.024-07:00That's the way to be. I think unless the relat...That's the way to be. I think unless the relationship has good marriage potential at the onset that its pretty pointless. Just be glad that you're not stuck in the whole cycle of meeting guys at bars/clubs. I don't know why people think that's a good place to meet anyone.Stacy K. https://www.blogger.com/profile/06853574441003653244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-41354816237649549322009-09-28T20:43:46.033-07:002009-09-28T20:43:46.033-07:00YAY. It is true, one must be happy with one's...YAY. It is true, one must be happy with one's self before they can be happy in a relationship.LKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06170091976914539273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29744002496111674.post-47625516709716874642009-09-28T20:36:18.510-07:002009-09-28T20:36:18.510-07:00thats awesome what does he think about ur niqab?thats awesome what does he think about ur niqab?.::Tuttie::.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16998039088396426418noreply@blogger.com